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The Fruit of the Spirit WORD series- Self Control Pt. 2

Day 2 of our study on self control is found in 1 Thessalonians 5:8-9. But let us who live in the light be clearheaded, protected by the armor of faith and love, and wearing as our helmet the confidence of our salvation. For God chose to save us through our Lord Jesus Christ, not to pour out his anger on us. (1 Thessalonians 5:8, 9 NLT)

I Thessalonians 5:8 says those who profess your self to be a Christian (live in the Light) BE CLEARHEADED! Don't allow circumstances to cloud your mind, don't let anger cloud your mind, don't let self-righteousness cloud your mind, don't let unforgiveness cloud your mind, BE CLEARHEADED! Use your armor of FAITH and LOVE to protect and surround you! The key to having self control is to remain focused on God at all times. If my focus is consistently on making my FATHER smile and keeping in mind that His Word tells me to LOVE you and treat you right no matter how you treat me then I can keep self in control! If I elevate my Faith in my Father and trust that no matter what my surroundings are, God will provide, protect and elevate me I can keep self in control.

In 1 Thessalonians 5:9 you'll find the example: God said I maintained my self control by choosing to save you rather than pouring out My anger up you! THANK GOD FOR GRACE AND MERCY! He is our example! When you want to lose it all and let your spouse or other persons have it think of the example God laid out for us. That is why He told us in Isaiah 26:3 (KJV) Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee.

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